Do You Have a Kick-Me Sign on Your Heart? - Wellbeing Wisdom Tiny Bites Podcast

Do you remember the last time you had a relationship break up? Maybe it was a good friendship, or maybe it was a long-term, committed relationship.

How did you react?

Did you try to explain yourself to the other person? Did you apologize for you-didn’t-even-know-what and did you try to convince them they were wrong about you and wrong about ending the relationship?

With great love, I want to ask you a question – why did you react that way?

When a person begs and pleads with another in order to keep a relationship, they’ve given away all their power. They might as well put a “kick me” sign on their heart because that’s what that kind of behavior invites.

When a person decides to leave a relationship, let them. Don’t hate them or argue with them or plead with them – let them leave. Your strength in that moment will do two things: it will take away any power you may have given them, and it will remind you that your value lies inside you and you hold the key.

There’s one more thing your strength might do – when they’ve had a chance to think about things, it might draw them right back to you. You decide if you’ll let them back in.

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