Have you ever had a defeat in your life? Something you thought would be a slam-dunk instead fell flat and you were the one with egg on your face? How’s that for a mixed metaphor? 

Maya Angelou said, “We may encounter many defeats, but we must not be defeated.” I love that quote – it’s a reminder that taking the long view makes the short-term setbacks feel less like defeats and more like steps along the path.

• Failed an interview? Good for you – it was great practice for the interview for something far more suited to your talents and abilities.
• Wrecked your car? Good for you – you now know how to navigate the insurance process and now realize that cars are just paint and metal (or plastic) and can be put back together.
• Wanted someone who didn’t want you? Good for you – when you were able to let that futile hope go, I hope you felt how strong you are and how you’ve now made room in your life for someone even better suited to you.

Have a defeat – don’t be defeated. That’s how you win at life.

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